sit down, take a load off

so i'm not thinking about getting married anytime soon.

BUT IF I WAS (BECAUSE I'm a girl, we always think about these things)

I HAVE DECIDED no matter WHO i end up marrying

I'm eloping and i'm having a secret wedding with a maximum of like 40 people hopefully only about 25 people (close friends and family) at Edith Wharton's estate

here's a pic

jk

i apparently understand absolutely nothing about copyright laws.

go look at it for yourself.

(insert) oh wait you already have hahahhahahah

i want to be married in the gardens underneath the trellis and i'd like to set up a nice white tent with some tables and
i'd like to have a little strings group to play some music

and obviously a wooden makeshift dance floor for dancing

and then like a limo or like a VERY NICE cool car that is dragging like pastel cans or something and it has ribbons and balloons on the bumper

and i want a tiffany engagement ring

and wedding rings from tiffany's

and like

my two bridesmaids will get tiffany charms

and i haven't REALLY decided on a dress but i have some general ideas

i also haven't decided on like a season
or like a color scheme or anything

but i think i'd like to have a multi religious ceremony that honors jewish/christian heritage and also some new age stuff as well as long as i don't get a bad vibe

and i'd really like to go somewhere private for a honeymoon but i DEFINATELY think it would be cool to do the harry potter thing and like disneyland tokyo but i kind of also have europe calling to me and like japan (i already said that)

and like maybe a river cruise?

i really am open to options

to whoever my future husband may be but i mean like people like want to know this stuff.
and i've been seeing a whole bunch of wedding stuff in my feed.

so like yeah.
xo