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my sister and her husband are fighting over cuddling.

it's amazing how much people have this human need, this physical need to be cuddled.

i have it you have it we all have it and it's very unique in almost every person.

men are afraid of it women are afraid of communicating the way they need it and they EXPECT it automatically and this lack of communication causes all sorts of battles ends in marriages, families and fights between mothers and children and fathers and children and couples and stuff.

the key to a wonderful relationship with a person you are thinking of marrying or being with for a LONG TIME is a good physical bond.

if you have a good physical chemistry you will probably last for a good while.

the key to a good romance is

physical chemistry,

agreement about roommates and living situations and travel time and arrangements (children babies ect, birth control ect)

similar doctor habits and the way that you treat your body and eat and stuff

your chemistry with other people like can you handle if your partner is religious and extroverted while you are introverted and not very religious and political ect.

NO CHEATING  or ALWAYS CHEATING open door policy (acceptance)

open communication constant communication. (acceptance of physical and mental faults personally and of your partner)

similar communication habits

attracted to your partner physically and mentally

similar IQ's

so that's the basic rule how to keep a romance the key is meeting the person and finding them in the world.